How To Get Him Interested Again Fast
Getting your boyfriend or husband to be interested in you again can seem like an impossible challenge, especially if you’ve been together for years and have settled into a routine that doesn’t leave much room for romance.
There are some things you can do, however, to get him interested in you again and make him see you as the person he fell in love with all over again—to make him want to be with you and only you instead of thinking about other women who might catch his eye.
Who Needs This
Make no mistake, there are two main types of people who need a how-to guide on getting their partner interested in them again. Either they’re in a relationship and struggling with waning interest from their significant other, or they’ve just split up and need a game plan for winning back their ex’s love.
It doesn’t matter if you want your man back or not — learning how to turn up his feelings for you is going to make it easier for you no matter what stage of your relationship you’re in.
So, regardless of whether you’re trying to rekindle an old flame or score points with your current beau, learning these techniques will help you achieve your goal — which we hope is that they fall head over heels in love with you all over again!
Lose the Mask
Many times, when a woman is attracted to a man, she will try to change who she really is so that he’ll like her. This may include hiding some of her interests or even getting plastic surgery. But you have one life and you need to live it on your terms – not someone else’s.
Sure, it’s important that your guy doesn’t feel threatened by what makes you unique, but it’s also important that he likes exactly who you are – warts and all. If a guy has a problem with any aspect of your personality (including things like your weight), then he isn’t right for you anyway – no matter how much he likes you in other ways at first.
Break the Monotony
The best way to make sure your relationship doesn’t lose that initial spark is to keep things interesting. Even if you’re both so in love you could burst, try scheduling date nights away from home.
Trade off taking care of household chores and see who can take care of their half faster (you might even want to bet a little cash on it). If one or both of you are feeling rutty and need a change, a new job may be what’s needed—not just for your career but also for your personal happiness. Do something fun that forces you out of your routine.
Spice it Up in Bed
There are many ways you can make your relationship better in bed, but some things that will quickly help turn things around if you’re in a rut.
Here are several ideas that should help rekindle some of that initial spark:
- Try something new. Any form of novelty—new sex toy, different position, etc.—can be surprisingly arousing. Don’t worry about what it looks like or whether or not you’ll be any good at it. Just have fun and see where it takes you!
- Take time for each other. You don’t need sex toys and role-playing to have good sex; just make sure you have time for each other and don’t let yourself get so busy with daily life that you forget about making time for one another.
Get Out of Your Head
You need to stop overthinking things and make some kind of move. If you don’t, things will likely get worse as time goes on and more distance is put between you two. Stop letting your own fears and insecurities about dating hold you back from having fun and getting out there.
Think about what might happen if he doesn’t want you anymore: He might not think twice about breaking up with you because there are tons of other girls who would love to be with him if it didn’t work out. It’s also possible that he really likes spending time with you, but just isn’t that into relationships right now—maybe he has a lot going on at work or school and isn’t looking for anything serious yet.
Communicate During Sex
Talking during sex is a great way to be intimate, connect and make sure that you are both on board with what’s happening in bed. It might seem like common sense, but communication is very important for partners to understand each other’s needs and desires.
If you want your partner back, or if you just want someone else, then having better communication is a must for getting into a relationship where there’s a good flow of energy between both of you. Talking allows intimacy between two people as well as makes them feel closer to one another; which is why it’s an essential part of any healthy relationship.
Try New Things in Bed
There’s no better way to bring passion back into your relationship than by exploring new things in bed. If you don’t have time or are too embarrassed, use a toy.
For example, a vibrator can heighten sensation and make lovemaking an adventure that feels new—even if it’s not. It doesn’t have to be anything expensive; lingerie and sexy books will help as well. By trying new things in bed, you’ll renew old passions and set yourself up for success in your relationship.
Love is Not Enough
Sometimes, in relationships that have lasted for a while or are particularly deep, it’s easy to take your partner for granted. You no longer feel as excited about being with them as you once did. It’s important not to fall into this pattern of complacency because if you do, you might notice your partner feeling distant and uninterested.
You’re trying too hard and that’s why he isn’t as interested in you as you thought he would be. Give it a rest for a bit, focus on your own life and when you do see him, try and have fun but don’t make it obvious that you have a crush on him.
The best way to get an ex boyfriend back is just be yourself and let things play out. Eventually he will be back and once he is gone, that’s when you know he was meant for something more than just being your boyfriend.